…AKA ‘You know you’ve lived in Qatar too long when…”
Fellow Dohaze dweller and blogger ‘Bright Lights, Little City’ recently wrote this post about the sudden realisation that he called Doha ‘home.’ It is, indeed, a shock to realise that you actually live in Qatar.
I only fully came to terms with the fact that this wasn’t some kind of extended, slightly dusty, holiday when I moved into an unserviced flat and had to buy bedding.
But slowly, surely, and subtly, Doha creeps up on you until you stop paying attention to the weird ways that are now an almost daily part of your life.
Below is a list of moments, experienced by myself, my friends, or my ‘only-know-them-on-Twitter-but-they-seem-nice’ acquaintances, that reminded us we have been in the Gulf too long.
1) You navigate around the city using five star hotels as the only landmarks.
There are no post codes, Google maps is, at best, a vague suggestion of the road system you might experience not taking into account roadworks, new roundabouts that make no sense, or old roundabouts that *did* make sense being removed.
Sentences like: “Turn right when you see the sign for The Kempinski, go past the W, head right at the crossing and you should see the Mariott…” are worryingly commonplace.
2) This is a totally normal thing to see:
3) When it reaches 20 degrees and you reach for a jumper.
I told my mum to bring a jacket when she visited in December as it was getting down to 17 degrees in the evenings.
I got a ‘look.’
For context, here is this week’s forecast:
4) When you land in another country and assume there’s something wrong with your ears because you can’t hear construction noises.
5) When you forget how doors work.
To be absolutely clear, this wasn’t me.
When I first arrived a man I was interviewing said he once went back to the States and walked up to a door. It wasn’t automatic and no-one opened it for him so he stood there for a full 5 seconds before remembering what he had to do.
6) You have never made a coffee at work.
The service culture in the Gulf is insane, but the thing I found most difficult was the fact that most offices have a guy employed especially to make your coffee. It was rubbish because it meant I couldn’t procrastinate through my usual technique of frequent kitchen visits.
7) Filling your own car up is weird.
I don’t drive, but friends have told me stories of sitting in petrol stations in the UK or elsewhere and becoming increasingly frustrated that no-one is there to fill the car up.
8) When people say sandstorm everyone thinks this:
But you think this:
9) You are excessively nice to shop workers/waiters etc because you feel extreme guilt about how they are treated the rest of the time.
10) You understand that speed limits, traffic lights and lane discipline are all things that happen in other countries. People making left turns from the far right lane no longer freaks you out.
11) Any road is connected to all other roads by a series of roundabouts.
Also, it is totally normal that these roundabouts are named after the thing on them or near them. Immigration roundabout, arch roundabout, Oryx roundabout, TV roundabout, and Burger King roundabout are a few of my favourites.
Slope roundabout is on a slight incline.
12) Your reply to being asked for anything is “Bukra Insha’allah.”
13) You know that if someone says that to you it means “maybe sometime next month, or never, whatever, where’s my karak?”
14) You are at least 40% karak.
15) When you head back to the West, the outfits seem shocking.
I mean, there were shoulders and knees everywhere. Scandalous.
16) You change lanes as soon as a Land Cruiser gets anywhere near you.
17) You use ‘shway shway’ and ‘wait’ hand gestures without realising.
18) Dropping £700 at a time in the offy is no big deal. Also, a lot of that will probably be spent on pork. Ahhh, QDC.
19) You’ve stopped checking Facebook on a Saturday night because it is depressing to see all your friends at home getting ready to go out when you’re getting ready for work.
20) Three months without leaving the country is too long.
21) Tax is a dirty word.
22) You get unnaturally excited about Ikea opening.
Props to my Gulf-ised friends who added their thoughts to this. At least we’re all going insane together…